How To Walk In a Fallen World??? Keep My Healing or continual to walk out my healing

Continuation from newsletter "How To Walk In A Fallen World!!! - Walk Out and/or Keep Your Healing."

Do you have expectations on others to meet your needs as a parent would? Are you still performing hoping they will say words that you NEED? Are you in a cycle of being abused, expecting things to be different? REMEMBER: Doing the same thing, but expecting different results is the definition of INSANITY. Are you disappointed, hurt and crushed every time it does not happen, AGAIN? Guess what, they won't and it won't- change that is. Satan is setting you up for disappointments heaped with more hurt and pain. Let go of the expectations on others.

EXPECTATIONS is really judgement/bitterness. Only the Lord can meet your need. When we put expectations on someone to act like a parent or special someone, then we made them an idol. My healing came faster when I released the people I had expectations on. I was flooded with freedom from my heart. Plus, they changed!
Hurting people hurt people. We live in a world full of hurting people. Expect to get hurt by others, but not broken. How do I not get broken? The faster you separate them (Romans 7 Separation - its not them but the sin in them), forgive them (a friend told me "forgive before the crow gets cold"), then you won't be broken.

Jeremiah 5:25 says that we withhold good things from us. When we don't forgive, we block all blessings! Isaiah 59:1-2 says, God can heal us, but our sins and iniquities prevent Him. He cannot move against our will. Our sins and iniquities are unforgiveness and not receiving God's love.
Are you being driven to meet everyone else's expectations? - "Fear of man", "fear of rejection", fear of failure", fear of abandonment", etc. Stop if you are! God leads and satan drives. If satan is driving you, then get out of the driver seat and allow the Lord to lead you. Being lead is much more peaceful than being driven in fear.

"1 Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted. 2 Bear ye one another's burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ. 3 For if a man think himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceiveth himself. 4 But let every man prove his own work, and then shall he have rejoicing in himself alone, and not in another. 5 For every man shall bear his own burden."

Do you get all caught up helping others (advising others when they didn't ask) and not taking care of self? False Burden Bearing is rooted in rejection! The enemy is tricky and will use your feelings of rejection to try to get you to help others (to steal your peace) so that you will feel accepted but in reality satan is stealing your peace and keeping you in "turmoil." It is meeting a need in you to help others. Let go and let God! Let Him be in control! Yes, pray for them but release them to the Lord standing in faith saying "it is done." This is activating your faith by standing!

You do want to come along side them! We are to support them during their trials. You are not there to solve their solutions. You don't want to become consumed with their thoughts over the situation and person (children, parents or someone they care about).
Watch your thought life and don’t dwell in the negative - Keep our thoughts captive under truth. Casting down all imaginations that exhalts itself against the knowledge of God. (II Corinthians 10:5).

If you believe the negative lies from satan or others, it can cause you to go into perfection, performance and drivenness, pull away, go into self-comparison and ultimately to loose your peace and separate you from the Love of the Lord! Resist him because thoughts can lead to sin! "Submit yourselves therefore to God, resist the Devil and He will flee".. This means submit your mind, body and soul to the Lord.
Know God's Love Is Unconditional! There is nothing you can do to receive more of His LOVE, and there is no sin so large to loose His LOVE. The only difference between the lost and the saved is we have the promises. He loves the lost just as much as the saved. Sin separates us, but God is always there with His arms wide open to receive you back through His mercy. You do not need to perform to receive more of His LOVE. It's already done! The Scripture clearly teaches that God's love (phileo, agape, aheb, ahabah, etc.) is unfailing, undeserved, and unilateral (completely one-sided in initiation). But is God's love without condition--I.E.: UN- conditional? Come into His Rest!!!

Watch what comes out of your mouth! Is It a Good Report or a Bad report?

(Philippians 4:8) "Finally brethren, Whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, if there be any praise, think on these things. AND those things which ye have both learned, and received, and heard, and seen in me, do, and the God of peace shall be with you."

When you have symptoms, don't receive them or become one with them.

Conclusion:

Don't be tricked by the enemy, but be wise (Hebrews 5:14) and discern good and evil. Recognize the accuser and cast those thoughts down and don't receive them even if they come from a person. Know who you are to the Lord. You are precious in His sight!

I leave you with this scripture: 1 Thessalonians 5:23 "And the very God of peace sanctify you wholly; and I pray God your whole spirit and soul and body be preserved blameless unto the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ."